Why am I writing this and not just ignoring the haters? Because I know about all the adoptees feeling alone and watching advocates being gaslighted when sharing their experiences. When you relate to someone sharing, and you see them being attacked for it, that automatically puts some fear into your mind that it’ll happen to … More Triggers are Valid
LillyFei | LFSMusings
It’s about that time for another daily musing. I post these less and less as book reviews and advocacy take up most of my time. As we can all agree, January felt like it lasted about 100 years. I am very happy to be in February and getting on with the year. The days are … More January 2020 Update
Trigger Warning: Racist language used against Asians (used in a quote said to me) Invalidation comes in all forms. I experience it most often when my graphics and posts get shared and exposed to people who have never confronted complexities with adoption and race. “Won’t discredit her feelings, but I fear she’s had different experiences … More What’s Invalidation?